(しゅうとめ)

しゅうとめ
noun
mother-in-law
1. mother-in-law
The mother of one's spouse.
(しゅうとめ)同居(どうきょ)している。
I live with my mother-in-law.
(しゅうとめ)との関係(かんけい)(なや)んでいる。
I'm troubled by my relationship with my mother-in-law.
(しゅうとめ)料理(りょうり)(おし)えてくれた。
My mother-in-law taught me how to cook.

(しゅうとめ) refers specifically to the mother of one's spouse. It is the traditional native Japanese word (和語) for this relationship.

WRITING:
Often written in hiragana (しゅうとめ) because the kanji 姑} is not commonly known. In formal or legal contexts, {義母(ぎぼ) is preferred.

CULTURAL NOTE:
The (よめ)(しゅうとめ) (daughter-in-law and mother-in-law) relationship is a frequent topic in Japanese media and culture, often depicted as a source of family tension. The word 嫁姑(よめしゅうとめ)問題(もんだい) refers to conflicts between these two roles.

RELATED TERMS:

  • (しゅうと): father-in-law (husband's or wife's father)
  • 義母(ぎぼ): mother-in-law (formal, legal term)
  • (よめ): daughter-in-law; also "wife" in some dialects
  • 義理(ぎり)(はは): mother-in-law (polite, descriptive)