(ぎり)(おや)

ぎりのおや
noun
parent-in-law, stepparent
family
1. parent-in-law
A spouse's parent — either the father-in-law or mother-in-law.
義理(ぎり)(おや)挨拶(あいさつ)した
I greeted my in-laws.
義理(ぎり)(おや)関係(かんけい)(なや)んでいる
I'm struggling with my relationship with my in-laws.
Going to my in-laws' house for New Year's makes me nervous.
2. stepparent
A parent who is not biologically related but has a parental role through remarriage.
義理(ぎり)(おや)(なか)いい
I get along well with my stepparent.
(はは)再婚(さいこん)して義理(ぎり)(おや)できた
My mother remarried, and I got a stepparent.
I look up to my stepparent as if they were my real parent.

Forms

義理(ぎり) (duty, obligation; in-law) + (possessive) + (おや) (parent)

The 義理(ぎり)~ pattern is used to form many in-law and step-family terms:

Formal equivalents

Cultural note

Relationships with 義理(ぎり)(おや) are a frequent topic in Japanese advice columns and online forums, especially regarding expectations during holidays and family gatherings.