しがらみ

しがらみ
noun
entanglements; binding ties; obligations that constrain
societyabstract
1. entanglements; binding ties; constraining obligations
The web of personal, social, or business relationships that limits what one can freely do — favors owed, factional loyalties, family expectations. Almost always negative in tone.
It's a job with a lot of entanglements.
I want to be free of the organization's binding ties.
Cutting himself loose from local obligations, he started a company on his own.

Originally a weir of stakes and brushwood set in a river to hold back the current — hence the image of something that stops one from flowing freely.

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Usually written in hiragana. It names constraints that come from relationships, not from rules — 規則(きそく) restricts you openly, while しがらみ makes a course of action socially impossible.