()いてけぼり

おいてけぼり
noun
being left behind, being abandoned
1. being left behind, being abandoned, being excluded
The state of being left behind by others who have moved on. Can refer to physically being left somewhere or figuratively being excluded from a group activity or social trend.
一人(ひとり)だけ()いてけぼりにされた。
I was the only one left behind.
技術(ぎじゅつ)進歩(しんぽ)()いてけぼりにされている()がする。
I feel like I'm being left behind by technological progress.
みんなが(さき)()ってしまって、(おとうと)()いてけぼりを()らって()()した。
Everyone went on ahead, and my little brother started crying because he was left behind.

USAGE:
Most commonly used in the pattern ()いてけぼりにされる (to be left behind) or ()いてけぼりを()らう (to get left behind). The word has a childish, colloquial nuance and conveys a sense of being unfairly excluded or forgotten.

ORIGIN:
Derived from ()いていく (to leave behind) with the suffix ぼり. Also written as ()いてきぼり.

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • ()いてけぼりにする: to leave someone behind
  • ()いてけぼりにされる: to be left behind
  • ()いてけぼりを()らう: to get left behind