1.
formal meeting for marriage, matchmaking, arranged introduction
A formal meeting arranged by a go-between or family members for the purpose of considering marriage. The prospective bride and groom meet, often with their families, to evaluate compatibility.
見合いをすることになった。
It was decided that I would have an arranged meeting.
母に勧められて見合いの相手に会った。
At my mother's recommendation, I met with the person from the arranged introduction.
見合い結婚と恋愛結婚のどちらが多いか、時代によって変わる。
Whether arranged marriages or love marriages are more common changes with the times.
USAGE:
見合い traditionally involves a 仲人 (go-between) who arranges the meeting and facilitates introductions. Modern 見合い has evolved considerably and may be quite casual. The word contrasts with 恋愛 (romantic love) — marriages are often classified as either 見合い結婚 (arranged marriage) or 恋愛結婚 (love marriage).
COMMON COLLOCATIONS:
- 見合い結婚: arranged marriage
- 見合い相手: matchmaking partner
- 見合いをする: to have an arranged meeting
- 見合い写真: photo used for matchmaking