(おやふこう)

おやふこう
noun
unfilial conduct; disobedience to parents
1. unfilial conduct; disobedience to parents
Behavior that causes worry, shame, or grief to one's parents; being a bad son or daughter.
親不孝(おやふこう)なことをした。
I did something unfilial.
(おや)心配(しんぱい)ばかりかけて、親不孝(おやふこう)だと(おも)う。
I think I'm being unfilial, always making my parents worry.
(おや)より(さき)()ぬのは最大(さいだい)親不孝(おやふこう)だと()われる。
It is said that dying before one's parents is the greatest act of unfilial piety.
2. unfilial child; ungrateful child
A person who causes their parents distress or fails to show proper respect and care.
親不孝(おやふこう)息子(むすこ)だ。
He is an unfilial son.
あの()親不孝(おやふこう)もので、連絡(れんらく)もしない。
That child is ungrateful — doesn't even contact their parents.
親不孝(おやふこう)(むすめ)だったけれど、やっと親孝行(おやこうこう)ができるようになった。
I was an unfilial daughter, but I've finally become able to show my parents proper devotion.

親不孝(おやふこう) is the opposite of 親孝行(おやこうこう) (filial piety). It is composed of (おや) (parent) + 不孝(ふこう) (lack of filial piety). The concept is rooted in Confucian values that emphasize respect and devotion to one's parents.

USAGE:
Can function as a noun or as a na-adjective: 親不孝(おやふこう)() (an unfilial child).

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • 親不孝(おやふこう)(): an unfilial child
  • 親不孝(おやふこう)をする: act in an unfilial way
  • 親不孝(おやふこう)もの: ungrateful child (somewhat stronger)
  • 親不孝(おやふこう)(どお)り: a street associated with nightlife (named because children spending time there worry their parents)

SIMILAR WORDS:

  • 親孝行(おやこうこう): filial piety — the antonym; showing devotion and care for one's parents
  • 不孝(ふこう): unfilial — more formal and literary; not limited to parent-child relationships