~づらい

づらい
suffix
hard to ~; difficult to ~ (psychologically)
grammatical
1. hard to ~; difficult to ~
Attaches to the masu-stem of a verb to indicate that the action is difficult to perform, often with a nuance of psychological or emotional difficulty. The resulting word conjugates as an i-adjective.
That's a difficult thing to say.
I'm having trouble because it's hard to consult the teacher.
That shop's entrance is hard to find, so it's difficult for first-timers to locate.

Forms

Attaches to the masu-stem (連用形(れんようけい)) of verbs:

Similar words

  • ~づらい vs. ~にくい: Both mean "hard to do," but ~づらい implies the speaker feels psychological resistance or discomfort, while ~にくい is more neutral/objective. 言(い)いづらい (hard to say — feels awkward) vs. 聞(き)き取(と)りにくい (hard to hear — objectively difficult).
  • ~づらい vs. ~がたい: ~がたい is more literary/formal and expresses something nearly impossible to do emotionally (信(しん)じがたい, hard to believe).

Usage

Often used with verbs of communication and social interaction, where the difficulty is interpersonal: 話(はな)しづらい (hard to talk about), 頼(たの)みづらい (hard to ask a favor), 断(ことわ)りづらい (hard to refuse).