(けんたいき)

けんたいき
noun
period of staleness; relationship rut
1. period of staleness; stage when a relationship loses its spark
A period in a romantic relationship when the initial excitement has faded and both partners feel boredom or indifference toward each other. Commonly discussed in the context of couples and marriage.
()()って3(ねん)倦怠期(けんたいき)(はい)った。
We hit a relationship rut after three years of dating.
夫婦(ふうふ)倦怠期(けんたいき)()()える方法(ほうほう)(かんが)えている。
I'm thinking about ways to get through the staleness in our marriage.
倦怠期(けんたいき)()たからといって(わか)れるのではなく、二人(ふたり)(あたら)しいことに挑戦(ちょうせん)してみようと()めた。
Rather than breaking up just because we hit a rut, we decided to try new things together.

倦怠(けんたい) means weariness or languor; () means period or phase. The compound specifically describes a stage in a romantic relationship.

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • 倦怠期(けんたいき)(はい)る: to enter a relationship rut
  • 倦怠期(けんたいき)()()える: to get through/overcome the rut
  • 倦怠期(けんたいき)()る: the rut arrives
  • 夫婦(ふうふ)倦怠期(けんたいき): marital staleness