送(おく)り狼(おおかみ)

おくりおおかみ
noun
wolf in sheep's clothing; man with ulterior motives escorting a woman home
personidiom
1. man with ulterior motives who offers to walk a woman home
Literally 'escort wolf' - a man who volunteers to see a woman home, especially late at night, but whose real motive is a romantic or sexual advance rather than genuine concern for her safety. Used warily or jokingly to describe such a man, or the situation itself.
彼(かれ)は送(おく)り狼(おおかみ)かもしれない。
He might be a wolf in sheep's clothing.
夜道(よみち)で送(おく)り狼(おおかみ)に気(き)をつけたほうがいい。
You should watch out for men with ulterior motives when walking home at night.
初(はつ)デートの帰(かえ)り、彼(かれ)が家(いえ)まで送(おく)ってくれたが、送(おく)り狼(おおかみ)にはならず玄関(げんかん)前(まえ)できちんと別(わか)れてくれた。
On the way back from our first date, he walked me home, but he wasn't a 'wolf' - he said a proper goodbye at my door.

送(おく)り狼(おおかみ) literally means 'escort wolf': a man who offers to walk a woman home but whose real aim is to make a move on her rather than to protect her.

Usage

Typically used warily, or jokingly, about a man's offer to walk someone home. Calling a man a 送(おく)り狼(おおかみ) signals suspicion of his motives - it does not necessarily mean he acted on them.

Etymology

From the old image of a wolf (狼(おおかみ)) trailing a traveler on a mountain path, waiting for the moment the traveler lets their guard down.

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