おじさん

おじさん
noun
uncle; middle-aged man
1. uncle
One's parent's brother. Can also refer to the husband of one's parent's sister (uncle by marriage).
My uncle lives in Osaka.
I received a present from my uncle.
What is your uncle's job?
My uncle is my father's younger brother.
It's been a while since I've seen my uncle.
2. middle-aged man, mister
Used to address or refer to a middle-aged man who is not related to you. Similar to 'mister' or 'sir' in English.
すみません、おじさん、(えき)どこです
Excuse me, mister, where is the station?
Casual way to address a middle-aged stranger
Excuse me, sir, could you take a picture for me?
Politely asking a middle-aged stranger
The man next door is kind.
That man showed me the way.
The man at the fish shop is calling out energetically.

おじさん has two main uses: addressing a family uncle, and addressing or referring to a middle-aged man.

KANJI FORMS (for family uncle):

  • 叔父(おじ)さん: uncle younger than your parent
  • 伯父(おじ)さん: uncle older than your parent

In practice, most people write おじさん in hiragana regardless.

SOUND-ALIKE WARNING:
おじさん (uncle / middle-aged man) and おじいさん (grandfather / elderly man) sound very similar. Pronouncing the wrong one can cause offense — be careful with vowel length.

FORMALITY:
When speaking about your own uncle to others, use 叔父(おじ)/伯父(おじ) (without さん). When referring to someone else's uncle politely, おじさま is more formal.

RELATED:

  • おばさん: aunt / middle-aged woman
  • おじいさん: grandfather / elderly man