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husband
A neutral term for husband. This is the most straightforward word for referring to one's spouse without the hierarchical implications of 主人.
夫 is a neutral, objective term for "husband." It is increasingly preferred by modern Japanese speakers who find 主人 too hierarchical.
Usage
Used when referring to one's own husband in neutral or formal contexts. Common in official documents, news, and written Japanese. A woman speaking to close friends may use 旦那 instead.
WORDS FOR "HUSBAND":
- 夫: neutral, objective (this word)
- 主人: traditional/humble (literally "master")
- 旦那: casual, colloquial
- ご主人: polite term for someone else's husband
Pair
The female equivalent is 妻 (wife, neutral).