(おっと)

おっと
noun
husband
See also: (つま) (wife)
1. husband
A neutral term for husband. This is the most straightforward word for referring to one's spouse without the hierarchical implications of 主人(しゅじん).
My husband is at work now.
I went shopping with my husband.
My husband likes reading books.
My husband plays with the children on his days off.
I met my husband when we were students. It's been twenty years now.

(おっと) is a neutral, objective term for "husband." It is increasingly preferred by modern Japanese speakers who find 主人(しゅじん) too hierarchical.

USAGE:
Used when referring to one's own husband in neutral or formal contexts. Common in official documents, news, and written Japanese. A woman speaking to close friends may use 旦那(だんな) instead.

WORDS FOR "HUSBAND":

  • (おっと): neutral, objective (this word)
  • 主人(しゅじん): traditional/humble (literally "master")
  • 旦那(だんな): casual, colloquial
  • 主人(しゅじん): polite term for someone else's husband

PAIR:
The female equivalent is (つま) (wife, neutral).