(おっと)

おっと
noun
husband
family
See also: (つま) (wife)
1. husband
A neutral term for husband. This is the most straightforward word for referring to one's spouse without the hierarchical implications of 主人(しゅじん).
My husband is at work now.
I went shopping with my husband.
My husband likes reading books.
My husband plays with the children on his days off.
I met my husband when we were students. It's been twenty years now.

(おっと) is a neutral, objective term for "husband." It is increasingly preferred by modern Japanese speakers who find 主人(しゅじん) too hierarchical.

Usage

Used when referring to one's own husband in neutral or formal contexts. Common in official documents, news, and written Japanese. A woman speaking to close friends may use 旦那(だんな) instead.

WORDS FOR "HUSBAND":

Pair

The female equivalent is (つま) (wife, neutral).