()める

さめる
verb (ichidan)
to cool down, to cool off
1. to cool down
For something hot to become cooler.
コーヒーが()めた。
The coffee got cold.
料理(りょうり)()める(まえ)()べよう。
Let's eat before the food gets cold.
風呂(ふろ)のお()()めないうちに(はい)ったほうがいい。
You should take your bath before the hot water cools down.
2. to wear off, to fade
For enthusiasm or interest to diminish.
興味(きょうみ)()める。
Interest fades.
最初(さいしょ)熱意(ねつい)はすぐに()めてしまった。
The initial enthusiasm quickly wore off.
()()(はじ)めた(ころ)夢中(むちゅう)だったが、だんだん気持(きも)ちが()めていった。
When we first started dating, I was crazy about it, but gradually my feelings cooled off.

()める is an intransitive verb meaning to cool down or for enthusiasm to fade.

TRANSITIVITY:

  • Type: 自動詞(じどうし) (intransitive)
  • Pair: ()ます (transitive, to cool something)

HOMOPHONE WARNING:

  • ()める: to cool down (temperature/emotions)
  • ()める: to wake up

PHYSICAL COOLING:

  • コーヒーが()めた: the coffee got cold
  • 料理(りょうり)()める(まえ)()べて: eat before the food gets cold

FIGURATIVE (emotions fading):

  • 興味(きょうみ)()める: interest fades
  • 愛情(あいじょう)()める: love cools
  • (ねつ)()める: enthusiasm wanes

ASPECT (ている):
()めている indicates something is already cold or enthusiasm has already faded.