何(なん)で

なんで
adverb
why, what for
informalspokengrammatical
1. why, for what reason
Used to ask the reason or cause for something.
何(なん)でだろう。
I wonder why.
何(なん)で来(こ)なかったの?
Why didn't you come?
何(なん)で遅(おく)れたの?
Why were you late?
何(なん)で泣(な)いてるの?
Why are you crying?
Why would you say something like that?
2. how, by what means
Used to ask about the means or method.
何(なん)で書(か)く?
What do you write with?
Asking about means/tools
何(なん)で食(た)べる? — 箸(はし)で食(た)べる。
What do you eat it with? — With chopsticks.
How are you getting there? — I'm going by train.
What did you make it with? — I made it with paper.
How do you get to school? — I go by bus.

Usage: なんで is a casual way to ask "why" or "how." It's more informal than どうして or なぜ.

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何(なん)で is ambiguous between "why" and "by what means": 何(なん)で来(き)たの? can ask either. To ask about means unambiguously, say 何(なに)で (何(なに)で来(き)たの? "How did you get here?"); for "why", どうして is safer.