どうして

どうして
adverb
why, how come
1. why, how come
Used to ask for the reason or cause of something. Slightly more casual than なぜ.
Why didn't you come?
Why are you crying?
Why are you studying Japanese?
Why didn't you go to school yesterday?
Why didn't you answer the phone? I called many times.
2. how
Used to ask about the method or way to do something.
How should I go?
How should I use it?
How do you read this word?
Please tell me how to get to the station.
How do you use this phone? I don't know how to use it.

どうして is used to ask "why" (reason) or "how" (method).

TWO MEANINGS:
1. Why (reason): どうして()なかったの? (Why didn't you come?)
2. How (method): どうして()けばいい? (How should I go?)

FORMALITY COMPARISON:

  • どうして: conversational, everyday
  • なぜ: formal, written/literary
  • なんで: very casual, informal

COMMON PATTERNS:

  • どうして〜の?: casual question (with の)
  • どうして〜んですか?: polite question
  • どうして?!: expressing surprise/disbelief

RESPONSE:
Typically answered with から (because) or ので (since).