1.
fate; destiny; lot in life
An inevitable course of events or situation determined by fate. Often used when accepting something as unavoidable.
これが私の定めなのだろう。
I suppose this is my fate.
人はいつか死ぬのが定めだ。
It is the fate of all people to someday die.
2.
rule; regulation; provision; stipulation
An established rule, law, or regulation that must be followed.
会の定めに従って決定した。
We made the decision according to the rules of the organization.
ORIGIN:
Noun form of 定める (to determine, to establish).
TWO MAIN MEANINGS:
1. FATE/DESTINY:
Used when accepting something as predetermined or inevitable:
- 運命の定め - fate's decree
- 人の定め - human destiny
- 死は定め - death is certain
This usage is literary and philosophical.
2. RULE/REGULATION:
More formal/written usage for established rules:
- 法の定め - provisions of law
- 会則の定め - organizational rules
COMMON PATTERNS:
- 〜は定めだ - ~ is fate/inevitable
- 定めに従う - to follow the rules/fate
- 定めを受け入れる - to accept one's fate
- 定めを変える - to change one's fate
SIMILAR WORDS (Fate):
- 運命 - fate, destiny (common)
- 宿命 - fate, destiny (emphasizes being predetermined)
- 天命 - divine will, heaven's decree
- 因縁 - karmic fate
SIMILAR WORDS (Rule):
- 規則 - rule (common)
- 規定 - regulation, provision
- 決まり - rule, custom
REGISTER:
Somewhat literary/formal for the "fate" meaning. More technical for the "rule" meaning.