(うら)

うらみ
noun
resentment, grudge, bitterness
1. resentment, grudge
A feeling of bitterness or ill will toward someone who has wronged you.
(かれ)(うら)ない
I hold no grudge against him.
I settle a long-standing grudge.
I don't want to do anything that would make enemies.
2. regret, complaint
A feeling of disappointment about circumstances.
あのときもっと勉強(べんきょう)しなかったことが(うら)みだ。
My regret is that I didn't study harder back then.
(うら)みを()ってもしかたがない。
It's no use voicing complaints.
()けたのは(うら)みが(のこ)るが、いい試合(しあい)だった。
Losing leaves some regret, but it was a good game.

(うら)み is a strong negative emotion of resentment or grudge.

COMMON PATTERNS:

  • (うら)みを()つ: to hold a grudge
  • (うら)みを()らす: to get revenge, settle a grudge
  • (うら)みを()う: to incur someone's resentment
  • (うら)みを(のこ)す: to leave behind resentment

RELATED:

  • (うら)む (verb): to resent, to hold a grudge
  • (うら)めしい (adjective): resentful, reproachful
  • (うら)(ごと): words of resentment

CULTURAL NOTE:
(うら)み appears frequently in Japanese literature, drama, and ghost stories. The concept of (うら)み driving spirits to haunt the living is a common theme.