(かない)

かない
noun
wife (humble)
1. wife (humble)
A humble way to refer to one's own wife when speaking to others. This is a traditional term used by men when referring to their wives.
My wife has gone shopping now.
I'll call you after talking with my wife.
This is a dish my wife made.
My wife is good at cooking and makes delicious food every day.
I look forward to traveling with my wife, just the two of us.

家内(かない) literally means 'inside the house' and is a humble term (謙譲語(けんじょうご)) traditionally used by husbands to refer to their own wives when speaking to others.

REGISTER:
Considered somewhat old-fashioned by younger speakers. Like 主人(しゅじん), it can imply traditional gender roles. Modern speakers often prefer (つま) as a more neutral alternative.

RELATED TERMS:

  • (つま): wife (neutral, modern preferred term)
  • (おく)さん: someone else's wife (respectful)
  • 女房(にょうぼう): wife (casual, male speech)
  • (よめ): wife (informal, regional)

USAGE NOTE:
家内(かない) is only used to refer to one's own wife. For someone else's wife, use (おく)さん or 奥様(おくさま). Still commonly heard among older men and in formal business introductions.