(へこ)

へこむ
godan verb
to be dented; to be indented; to feel down
See also: (へこ)ます (transitive)
Conjugation
AffirmativeNegative
Present(へこ)(へこ)まない
Present polite(へこ)みます(へこ)みません
Past(へこ)んだ(へこ)まなかった
Past polite(へこ)みました(へこ)みませんでした
て form(へこ)んで(へこ)まなくて
ている present(へこ)んでいる(へこ)んでいない
ている polite(へこ)んでいます(へこ)んでいません
ている past(へこ)んでいた(へこ)んでいなかった
ている past polite(へこ)んでいました(へこ)んでいませんでした
Conditional ば(へこ)めば(へこ)まなければ
Conditional たら(へこ)んだら(へこ)まなかったら
Volitional(へこ)もう
Volitional polite(へこ)みましょう
Potential(へこ)める(へこ)めない
Passive(へこ)まれる(へこ)まれない
Causative(へこ)ませる(へこ)ませない
Imperative(へこ)(へこ)むな
1. to be dented; to be indented
To have a surface pushed inward, creating a depression.
(くるま)ドア(へこ)んでしまった。
The car door got dented.
地面(じめん)(すこ)(へこ)んでいる。
The ground is slightly indented.
(かん)(へこ)んだ。
The can got dented.
The wall got dented where the ball hit it.
マットレス(へこ)んでいる。
The mattress is indented.
2. to feel down; to be dejected
To feel discouraged or depressed (colloquial).
試験(しけん)()ちて(へこ)んでいる。
I'm feeling down because I failed the exam.
失敗(しっぱい)して(へこ)んでいる。
I'm feeling down because of my failure.
(おこ)られて(へこ)んだ。
I got scolded and felt dejected.
そんなに(へこ)まないで。
Don't be so down about it.
批判(ひはん)されても(へこ)まない。
I won't be discouraged even if criticized.
()られて(へこ)んでいる。
I'm feeling down because I got rejected.
3. to be defeated; to give in
To lose or yield to someone.
I gave in after being out-argued by him.
議論(ぎろん)(へこ)まされた。
I was beaten in the argument.
I fought without yielding to my opponent.
No matter what you say, he won't back down.

(へこ)む is intransitive (自動詞(じどうし)). The transitive pair is (へこ)ます (to dent, to make someone feel down).

ASPECT ({ている}):
(へこ)んでいる indicates a resulting state of being dented, or an ongoing state of feeling down.

COMMON PATTERNS:

  • ドアが(へこ)む (door gets dented)
  • (へこ)んでいる (to be dented; to be feeling down)
  • ちょっと(へこ)んだ (I'm a bit down)

PARTICLE PATTERNS:

  • ~が(へこ)む: What is dented

COLLOQUIAL USAGE:
In casual speech, (へこ)む is commonly used to describe feeling disappointed or dejected. This usage is very common among younger speakers.

The kanji (おう) visually represents a depression or dent, matching the meaning.

Related Words

Antonym: ()()る (to protrude)