言(い)い合(あ)う

いいあう
verb (godan)
to quarrel; to argue with each other; to say to each other; to exchange words
自動詞 intransitivecommunication
Conjugation
AffirmativeNegative
Present言(い)い合(あ)う言(い)い合(あ)わない
Present polite言(い)い合(あ)います言(い)い合(あ)いません
Past言(い)い合(あ)った言(い)い合(あ)わなかった
Past polite言(い)い合(あ)いました言(い)い合(あ)いませんでした
て form言(い)い合(あ)って言(い)い合(あ)わなくて
ている present言(い)い合(あ)っている言(い)い合(あ)っていない
ている polite言(い)い合(あ)っています言(い)い合(あ)っていません
ている past言(い)い合(あ)っていた言(い)い合(あ)っていなかった
ている past polite言(い)い合(あ)っていました言(い)い合(あ)っていませんでした
Conditional ば言(い)い合(あ)えば言(い)い合(あ)わなければ
Conditional たら言(い)い合(あ)ったら言(い)い合(あ)わなかったら
Volitional言(い)い合(あ)おう—
Volitional polite言(い)い合(あ)いましょう—
Potential言(い)い合(あ)える言(い)い合(あ)えない
Passive言(い)い合(あ)われる言(い)い合(あ)われない
Causative言(い)い合(あ)わせる言(い)い合(あ)わせない
Imperative言(い)い合(あ)え言(い)い合(あ)うな
1. to quarrel; to argue with each other
To engage in a verbal dispute where both parties exchange heated words back and forth.
兄弟(きょうだい)でよく言(い)い合(あ)う。
The siblings often argue with each other.
くだらないことで言(い)い合(あ)うのはやめよう。
Let's stop arguing over trivial things.
The two got into an argument over something trivial, and the people around them grew worried.
2. to say to each other; to exchange words
To mutually express the same thing to one another, such as greetings, well-wishes, or shared sentiments.
「おめでとう」と言(い)い合(あ)った。
They said 'Congratulations' to each other.
My friend and I exchanged jokes and laughed.
On graduation day, my classmates and I parted ways saying 'Let's meet again' to each other.

A compound verb formed from 言(い)う (to say) + 合(あ)う (to do together/mutually). The 合(あ)う suffix adds reciprocity — both parties are speaking. In practice, sense 1 (arguing) is more common than sense 2 (exchanging words).

Usage

  • Sense 1 often appears as the noun form 言(い)い合(あ)い (an argument, a quarrel)
  • Sense 2 is typically used with a quoted phrase or specific content being exchanged
  • The subject is usually plural or implies two or more people

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