断(ことわ)り

ことわり
noun
refusal; advance notice; permission
communication
1. refusal; declining
Saying no to a request, an invitation or an offer; in shop signs, お断(ことわ)り means "not allowed" or "we do not accept".
断(ことわ)りの電話(でんわ)。
A phone call to decline.
未成年者(みせいねんしゃ)の入店(にゅうてん)はお断(ことわ)りします。
Minors are not admitted.
I got a polite letter turning me down, but I was still disappointed.
2. advance notice; asking permission
Telling someone beforehand or getting their permission before doing something; most often heard in negative phrases such as 断(ことわ)りもなく (without asking).
断(ことわ)りもなく休(やす)む。
To take time off without telling anyone.
Please ask first before you use it.
Posting someone's photo online without their permission is bad manners.

The noun form of 断(ことわ)る, which has both meanings: to refuse, and to give notice or ask permission. Not to be confused with 理(ことわり) (reason, natural law), a literary word with the same reading.

Common expressions

  • お断(ことわ)り: (on signs) not allowed; we decline
  • 断(ことわ)りもなく / 断(ことわ)りなく: without asking, without notice
  • 断(ことわ)りを入(い)れる: to give notice; to ask first
  • 断(ことわ)り書(が)き: a disclaimer, a written proviso
  • 断(ことわ)りの返事(へんじ): a reply turning something down