(こば)

こばむ
verb (godan)
to refuse; to reject; to resist
1. to refuse; to decline
To firmly say no to a request or offer.
彼女(かのじょ)(もう)()(こば)んだ。
She refused the offer.
協力(きょうりょく)(こば)理由(りゆう)はない。
There's no reason to refuse cooperation.
(ちち)何度(なんど)(たの)んだが、最後(さいご)まで(がん)として(こば)(つづ)けた。
I asked my father many times, but he stubbornly kept refusing until the end.
2. to reject; to turn away
To not accept or not allow something.
入国(にゅうこく)(こば)まれた。
I was denied entry into the country.
その(みせ)未成年(みせいねん)入場(にゅうじょう)(こば)んでいる。
That shop turns away minors.
審査(しんさ)委員会(いいんかい)書類(しょるい)不備(ふび)があるとして、(かれ)申請(しんせい)(こば)んだ。
The review committee rejected his application, citing incomplete documents.
3. to resist; to block
To stand against or prevent something from happening.
(からだ)変化(へんか)(こば)んでいる。
My body is resisting change.
住民(じゅうみん)たちは開発(かいはつ)計画(けいかく)(こば)んだ。
The residents blocked the development plan.
長年(ながねん)にわたって地域(ちいき)人々(ひとびと)一丸(いちがん)となり、大型(おおがた)ショッピングモールの建設(けんせつ)(こば)(つづ)けてきた。
For many years, the local people have united to resist the construction of a large shopping mall.

(こば)む is a transitive verb (他動詞(たどうし)). There is no common intransitive pair.

ASPECT ({ている}):
(こば)んでいる indicates a continuing state of refusal or rejection.

COMMON PATTERNS:

  • (もう)()(こば)む - to refuse an offer
  • 入場(にゅうじょう)/入国(にゅうこく)(こば)む - to deny entry
  • 協力(きょうりょく)(こば)む - to refuse cooperation
  • (こば)(つづ)ける - to keep refusing

(こば)む VS (ことわ)る:

  • (こば)む is more formal and literary, implying firm rejection
  • (ことわ)る is more common in everyday speech and can be polite refusal
  • (こば)む often implies resistance or stubborn refusal

RELATED WORDS:

  • 拒否(きょひ) - refusal, rejection (noun)
  • 拒絶(きょぜつ) - rejection (stronger)