(かっとう)

かっとう
noun
conflict; dilemma; inner struggle
emotion
1. conflict; dilemma; inner struggle
A state of mental or emotional struggle between opposing forces or choices.
内心(ないしん)葛藤(かっとう)している
I'm struggling internally.
There's a conflict between work and family.
I overcame the conflict with him.
I'm torn between chasing my dream and choosing stability.
This novel depicts the protagonist's inner conflict very skillfully.

葛藤(かっとう) describes a deep struggle or conflict — either an internal dilemma (torn between choices) or interpersonal friction.

Etymology

The characters (かつ) (kudzu vine) and (とう) (wisteria) both refer to climbing vines that become tangled together, metaphorically representing entangled struggles.

Common patterns

Register

Somewhat literary and formal. Common in novels, essays, and psychological discussions. In casual speech, (なや) (to worry/agonize) or (まよ) (to be torn) are more natural for everyday dilemmas.