()()める

ひきとめる
verb (ichidan)
to hold back, to detain
1. to hold back, to stop, to detain
To prevent someone from leaving or going somewhere.
友人(ゆうじん)(かえ)ろうとしたので()()めた。
My friend was about to leave, so I held them back.
暴走(ぼうそう)する(くるま)()()めることはできなかった。
It was impossible to stop the runaway car.
2. to dissuade, to talk out of
To persuade someone not to do something, especially resigning or quitting.
(かれ)辞職(じしょく)(なん)とか()()めたい。
I want to somehow talk him out of resigning.
社長(しゃちょう)優秀(ゆうしゅう)社員(しゃいん)()()めるために給料(きゅうりょう)()げた。
The president raised salaries to retain talented employees.

TRANSITIVITY: 他動詞(たどうし) (transitive). Compound verb: ()く + ()める. Pattern: Xを()()める (hold back X / stop X).

ASPECT: ている indicates ongoing effort. ()()めている = 'is trying to hold back' or 'is detaining.'

COMMON PATTERNS:

  • (ひと)()()める (hold someone back)
  • 辞職(じしょく)()()める (talk someone out of resigning)
  • (なん)とか()()める (somehow try to stop/retain)

NOTE: Often used in workplace contexts when trying to prevent someone from quitting. Can also be written as ()()める with the same meaning.

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