(ぐち)

ぐち
noun
complaint; grumble; whining
communication
1. complaint; grumbling; whining about one's troubles
Expressing dissatisfaction or complaints about problems, often repeatedly and without seeking a solution.
Would you listen to me complain about work?
Complaining won't change anything.
He does nothing but complain.
I understand the urge to complain, but let's move forward.
Complaining about the boss at drinking parties is one way office workers let off steam.

Common collocations

Who you say IT to

愚痴(ぐち) is aimed at a sympathetic listener, not at the person responsible - you grumble to a friend about your boss, you do not grumble to your boss. Because it implies venting rather than solving, offering to listen (()) is a friendly act, while being called 愚痴(ぐち)っぽい is not a compliment.

Similar words

  • 文句(もんく) (complaint, objection) - said to the person concerned; a direct protest that expects something to change.
  • 不満(ふまん) (dissatisfaction) - the feeling itself, whether or not it is voiced.
  • 苦情(くじょう) (complaint) - formal, made to a business or an authority.

Etymology

愚痴(ぐち) is originally a Buddhist term for one of the three poisons (三毒(さんどく)) - ignorance or delusion (() = foolish, () = ignorant). The modern everyday sense has drifted well away from that.