()かい()

むかいあう
verb-godan
to face each other
Conjugation
AffirmativeNegative
Present()かい()()かい()わない
Present polite()かい()います()かい()いません
Past()かい()った()かい()わなかった
Past polite()かい()いました()かい()いませんでした
て form()かい()って()かい()わなくて
ている present()かい()っている()かい()っていない
ている polite()かい()っています()かい()っていません
ている past()かい()っていた()かい()っていなかった
ている past polite()かい()っていました()かい()っていませんでした
Conditional ば()かい()えば()かい()わなければ
Conditional たら()かい()ったら()かい()わなかったら
Volitional()かい()おう
Volitional polite()かい()いましょう
Potential()かい()える()かい()えない
Passive()かい()われる()かい()われない
Causative()かい()わせる()かい()わせない
Imperative()かい()()かい()うな
1. to face each other; to sit / stand opposite one another
For two or more people or things to be positioned facing one another directly. Also used figuratively for confronting or dealing squarely with a person, problem, or one's own feelings.
二人(ふたり)()かい()う。
The two face each other.
(つくえ)()かい()わせに(なら)べた。
We arranged the desks facing each other.
家族(かぞく)全員(ぜんいん)食卓(しょくたく)()かい()って夕食(ゆうしょく)()べた。
The whole family sat around the dinner table facing each other and ate dinner.
自分(じぶん)(よわ)さと正面(しょうめん)から()かい()うことは、(だれ)にとっても簡単(かんたん)ではない。
Confronting one's own weakness head-on is not easy for anyone.

A compound verb formed from ()かう (to face, to head toward) and ()う (the reciprocal auxiliary suffix 'to do mutually'). The reciprocal nuance is essential: one-sided facing is ()かう, while mutual facing is ()かい()う.

USAGE:

  • Physical meaning: two people, tables, buildings, etc. positioned facing each other. Subjects are typically plural or joined by と.
  • Figurative meaning: facing up to or directly engaging with a problem, emotion, person, or one's past. Takes the object with と or と+正面(しょうめん)から.
  • The て}-form {向()かい()って is very common as an adverbial: ()かい()って(はな)す (to talk face to face).
  • ()かい()わせ (the noun form with -aせ ending) means 'opposite each other (in arrangement)'.

TRANSITIVITY:

  • Intransitive. Partners are marked with と, or both parties appear as the joint subject.

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • 正面(しょうめん)から()かい()う: to face (something) head-on
  • 問題(もんだい)()かい()う: to confront a problem
  • 自分(じぶん)自身(じしん)()かい()う: to face oneself
  • ()かい()って(すわ)る: to sit facing each other

SIMILAR WORDS:

  • ()かう: to head toward / face — one-directional, not reciprocal
  • (たい)する: to face / oppose — more abstract, often in formal or literary contexts
  • 対峙(たいじ)する: to confront / face off — stronger, often adversarial
  • ()つめ()う: to gaze at each other — emphasizes eye contact rather than physical position