Greetings and Set Phrases for Everyday Life

挨(あい)ζ‹Ά(さ぀)と決(き)γΎγ‚Šζ–‡(γ‚‚γ‚“)ε₯(く)

Phrases with a Time and a Place

Japanese daily life runs on ζŒ¨ζ‹Ά(あいさ぀) (greetings) and ζ±Ί(き)γΎγ‚Šζ–‡ε₯(もんく) (set phrases). They are said at fixed moments β€” leaving the house, sitting down to eat, arriving at a friend's door, finishing work β€” and most of them have no exact English equivalent, because English does not mark those moments at all. Learning them is less a matter of vocabulary than of knowing when to say them. Many come in a casual and a polite version, and choosing the right one is part of using the phrase correctly.

Through the Day

Leaving and Coming Home

These four phrases are exchanged in pairs and are used every single day in Japanese households, offices, and schools.

Meals

Visiting and Being Visited

At Work

Meeting People

Thanks and Apologies

Special Occasions

Tips for Learners

  1. Learn the pairs together. 葌(い)ってきます expects 葌(い)ってらっしゃい; γŸγ γ„γΎ expects γŠγ‹γˆγ‚Š. Half a pair sounds incomplete.
  2. Match the level. ございます, γͺさい, and γ§γ—γŸ turn a casual phrase into a polite one; use the polite forms with anyone who is not family or a close friend.
  3. Watch the direction. γ”θ‹¦εŠ΄(くろう)様(さま) goes only downward; γŠη–²(぀か)γ‚Œζ§˜(さま) works in every direction.
  4. Do not translate γ‚ˆγ‚γ—γγŠι‘˜(ねが)いします. Learn the situations instead: after introductions, when asking a favor, at the end of a request.
  5. Use すみません generously. It is the most versatile phrase in the language, and it is rarely wrong.
  6. See also The Basic Keigo System for the polite forms these phrases are built on, and Referring to People for how to address the people you greet.

Related Dictionary Entries

ζŒ¨ζ‹Ά(あいさ぀) (greeting) ζ±Ί(き)γΎγ‚Šζ–‡ε₯(もんく) (set phrase) γŠγ―γ‚ˆγ† (good morning (casual)) こんにけは (hello) こんばんは (good evening) γŠγ‚„γ™γΏγͺさい (good night) 葌(い)ってきます (I'm off) 葌(い)ってらっしゃい (see you later) γŸγ γ„γΎ (I'm home) お帰(γ‹γˆ)γ‚Šγͺさい (welcome back) γ„γŸγ γγΎγ™ (said before eating) ごけそうさま (said after eating) おι‚ͺι­”(γ˜γ‚ƒγΎ)します (excuse me for intruding) いらっしゃいませ (welcome (shops)) ε€±η€Ό(γ—γ€γ‚Œγ„)します (excuse me; goodbye) γŠη–²(぀か)γ‚Œζ§˜(さま) (thanks for your work) γ”θ‹¦εŠ΄ζ§˜(くろうさま) (thanks for your work (downward)) γŠε…ˆ(さき)に倱瀼(γ—γ€γ‚Œγ„)します (excuse me for leaving first) γŠδΈ–θ©±(せわ)にγͺγ£γ¦γŠγ‚ŠγΎγ™ (thank you for your support) γ‚ˆγ‚γ—γγŠι‘˜(ねが)いします (please treat me well) 初(はじ)めまして (how do you do) δΉ…(ひさ)γ—γΆγ‚Š (long time no see) γŠγ‹γ’γ•γΎγ§ (thanks to you) γ‚γ‚ŠγŒγ¨γ†γ”γ–γ„γΎγ™ (thank you (polite)) γ©γ†γ„γŸγ—γΎγ—γ¦ (you're welcome) すみません (excuse me; sorry; thanks) ごめんγͺさい (I'm sorry) η”³(もう)し訳(わけ)γ‚γ‚ŠγΎγ›γ‚“ (I'm very sorry) γŠεΎ…(ま)γŸγ› (sorry to keep you waiting) 恐(おそ)γ‚Œε…₯(い)γ‚ŠγΎγ™ (sorry to trouble you; thank you) γŠγ‚γ§γ¨γ† (congratulations) γŠε€§δΊ‹(γ γ„γ˜)に (take care of yourself) ζ°—(き)を぀けて (take care) ι ‘εΌ΅(γŒγ‚“γ°)って (good luck) γ‚ˆγ†γ“γ (welcome)